When I coach couples in committed relationships, I focus on revealing to you, what is happening so you can make conscious, intentional choices rather than rely on tired, often unconstructive patterns of behavior. I help you explore and discover what is trying to happen while holding to the belief that everyone is partially right and all voices deserve to be heard respectfully. I am tenacious in my effort to teach skills that foster appreciation as couples learn to weather the inevitable and perpetual bumps in the road.

who…

• You respect your relationship-no matter its future destiny
• You might be trying to decide if you should get married
• You may have just gotten married or you are new parents and want to pave the way for a stronger union
• You are facing a big transition
• You have discovered a schism in what was once a shared dream

how…

I coach couples in person^* or over the phone for an hour twice a month. We will usually work together for at least 6 months. Once we begin coaching, I never triangulate the relationship. All my communication is always with both of you as I view my client as “your relationship”.

If you are not ready for coaching, bring together 6 or more couples for an opportunity to reconnect with your partner, reinvest in the work of keeping your relationship strong and recommit to the life you want to create together. In three 90 minute sessions, couples at any stage of life can build more positivity and appreciation and navigate destructive responses to stress and conflict. Couples are not asked to publicly share intimate or personal details.

^*If you are in commuting distance to northern NJ